‘Yes, I wholeheartedly do but I recognize most of those assumptions come from a person’s own insecurities and convictions.
‘I say insecurities because they only compare the physical. They see fit guys who train 5-6 times a week with nice bodies and compare to their lack of and that’s it. So they start hurling insults and assumptions never thinking what it may mean for us. ‘I get some people who hit the gym are insecure so they rely on their bodies for appeal but for me and many others that’s not so. The body that comes with me training is just a byproduct of my decision to live a happy healthy life. ‘Most guys know they should be taking better care of themselves.
Lastly, how did his coming out as a sub bottom go down with people? Or who value fitness as an important aspect of our lives.’ ‘All the negative feedback I got came from the gay community’ They just lack the drive and ambition so they want to ridicule us who don’t lack those two things. ‘I got tons of positive feedback from the straight and gay community.